Wednesday, December 30, 2009

2009 Family Newsletter


Potts Photos and Newsletter for 2009






Merry Christmas to all and to all a great 2010!


Fom the Potts Clan




Grandma and Grandkids after Easter Egg Hunt


Family Picture this Summer


Summer fun with the grandkids


Dan and I were Ma and Pa on a Pioneer Trek




Potts 2009 Pictures


Dan and my brother, Burton, laying tile for mom


Dan and I went to Joseph's graduation from Baisc Training


We visited Epcot Center before our Carabean Cruise



Cruising fun!


What goes up... is interesting!



Patricia Parasailed for the first time!
Happy Halloween from Cindy and kids


Easter at Wheeler Farm



Enjoying a lazy summer day before the retreat




Joshua, Michael, McKinley and Ireland on our Family retreat at moon lake

Hail, Hail, the gang is all here!!


Moon Lake Family Retreat



The Grandkids enjoy visiting



Kezia Triana Hamilton is born at home Oct. 25, 2009


Patricia goes on a cruise through the Panama Canal
with her parents and their friends for Mom's 80th Birthday


                                            Patricia wishes you a Merry Christmas from Costa Rica
Celebrating Christmas with Josie's Family



Early 2009:
- Joseph joined the Army Jan. 6, 2009. He joined at Spokane Washington.
- The Colton’s moved into their new home
- Adam, Tiff’s husband, did his school internship in Hong Kong
- Trisha, Cindy and Heidi went to Phoenix for a few days to enjoy “sista time” with Tiffany. Jason, Dan and I “held down the fort” with the kids
- We worked to give mom a new tile floor in her kitchen. R.Buron did most of the work and the siblings chipped in money.
- Dan and I went back to see Joseph graduate from basic training at Fort Benning, Georgia then went on to enjoy a Caribbean Cruise!! We went to the Bahamas, St. Thomas, St. Martin and St. Johns.
- Tiffany changed jobs. Instead of new homes she does forclosures and resales.
- Joseph began competing in marshal arts in the army
- For Easter all 25 in our clan went to Wheeler Farm to celebrate!

Middle 2009
- Dan and I are ma and pa on a 4 day pioneer trek complete with handcarts. It was a great experience but I was glad it wasn’t longer than it was!
- Trisha and Darrin remodeled and opened their Ogden Beauty Salon
- Annual Tews Memorial Day outing. We enjoyed Joseph’s visit
- Dan ran in the 188 mile Wasatch Back Relay
- I spoke with Kerri and Angie at Utah State Mental Hospital
- Jason received his MBA degree
- Dan took the scouts to Lake Powell and Escalante
- Dan and I enjoyed a fishing weekend with my friend, Darla, and her husband Doug.
- I got to visit my cousins Jackie and Janae (it has been 20 years or so)
- We went to R.Burton’s place in Idaho for the 24th again. Fun!
- We had our annual family retreat at Moon Lake in July this year. We rented 4 cabins. It was great fun!
- The girls and I continued having our monthly temple outing. Fun
- I was on KSL Television because we were the victims of mail fraud!
- Dan took the scouts to Spirit Lake for a campout and was hailen on..
- Trisha remodeled our house. She created a forest room, a sailor room and a kids room! Great job Trisha!
- Patricia was in a 5 K walk during the family visit to see Burton on the 24th of July

Late 2009
- Dan ran a half-marathon again in Logan with his running companion Ron Houseon. He took 5th in his age division!
- Twice a year the girls and I get together for a scrapbook retreat at Heidi’s house complete with manicures!
- Dan and I enjoyed a weekend in St. George visiting with the Pitts and the Tews. It even included rowing at a local (and muddy) lake!
- Dan and I had fun on a weekend away with Doug and Darla. The guys went fishing on Jordanelle in Doug’s boat
- Kezia Triana was born at home with the midwives, Jason, Patricia, Cindy, Trisha and I helped! I got to stay and help for about a week after she was born.
- Born October 26th at 9:34pm
-8 lbs 4 oz
-20.5 inches long (just like her sisters!)
-Born at home
- Joseph visited for 4 days and got to meet little Kezia
- We had new windows installed in our home
- I completed my audio book for MY JOURNEY FROM DARKNESS TO LIGHT
- Trisha got pregnant with her first
- We had Thanksgiving at our house this year. Mom, Dad, Cindy and Richard came.
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For more details about the year, photos etc. see:
pottspondering@blogspot.com
http://patriciapotts.com
http://fromdarknesstolight.wordpress.com
hamiltonhappenings@blogspot.com
simonsmiles@blogspot.com
http://checkettslife.blogspot.com
See Cindy Potts Edward, Heidi Hamilton, Tiffany Checketts, Trisha Simon and Joseph Potts on face book



Thursday, November 26, 2009

A Thanksgivng Letter to my Father

I just thought I'd share this years thanksgivng letter to my Heavenly Father:

Thanksgiving 2009

Dear Father,
Good Morning and Happy Thanksgiving. To begin with I want to recall thy scriptures that remind me of being thankful and grateful:

1 Chr. 16: 7
David delivered first this psalm to thank the Lord.
(Delivering thanks first thing in the morning, first thing after receiving blessings…)
1 Chr. 23: 30
stand every morning to thank and praise the Lord.
John 11: 41
Father, I thank thee that thou hast heard me.
(So many times thou hast heard me. So many times thou hast listened when noone else understood. So many, many times I have been blessed by thee, taught by thee, comforted and healed by thee and my Savior Jesus Christ.)
Rom. 1: 8
I thank my God . . . for you all.
(So very many “for you alls” are in my life. From Dan to my parents and family, for learning, opportunities, children, grandchildren, home, food, Dan’s job, friends, guitar and so much more. I thank thee for all these things: dreams, hopes, successes, books and more. I feel most blessed above all. I thank thee)
Rom. 6: 17
God be thanked, that . . . ye have obeyed
(what a miracle it is that our children seek to obey the voice of the Lord. I see it in the way Cindy, Heidi and Josie teach their children to love thee and obey thee, I see it in the way Trisha and Tiffany are seeking to be moms despite the cost. I see it in the way that Joseph expresses his desire to have the gospel back in his life. What a miracle it is that our children seek to obey.)
Ether 6: 9
he did thank and praise the Lord all the day long.
1 Thes. 2: 13
thank we God without ceasing.

(There are few things more fun than looking heavenward and throwing my arms in the air then shouting (sometimes loudly and sometimes softly) “Thank you Father!!” I am so blessed that I know that if I did this consistently I could enjoy many aerobic moments. As it is I must admit that through thy blessings many of my days are filled with thanking in my heart, if not outloud. Father, please feel my heart radiating in this hour with huge thanks for the tools that have helped my thanks be fore constant. For prayer, cognitive therapy, EFT, supportive family and friends and more. In fact, I have been blessed with mental and physical and spiritual health so much lately. I wish to thank thee most sincerely!!! I love thee and pray that I may share that love with others also. I pray that the audiobook we recently completed may bless others. I ask these things in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.
2 Tim. 1: 3
I thank God, whom I serve
Father, Jesus, I desire to serve thee. I know that the more I serve the more I give thanks and the more I love. Please continue to teach me to find joy in serving and to follow thy directions.
D &C 59: 7
thank the Lord thy God in all things.
“In all things”… what a challenging commandment when things get tough. It has been said “When the going gets tough, the tough reevaluate.” I believe that is why I can thank God in all things. With his help the tough stuff can become lessons for today and tomorrow.

And so, as I come to the conclusion of this letter Father, I want to thank thee so much. I thank thee for births and new beginnings: for Kezia’s birth, for the birth of the new audiobook, for the forthcoming birth of Trisha’s baby, for Joseph’s birth in the army, for Cindy’s birth as a single mom and student, for Tiffany’s birth as a resale Realor, for Dan’s continued spiritual journey in serving so many, for Josies birth as she relocated to Layton and for all the relationships in my life. Our material blessings are countless as well. Now as I go forth help me to be filled with love. Love for myself, thee, Jesus, my family and all those around me. Happy Thanksgiving Father, 2009.

Sunday, November 1, 2009









Joseph with Kalli and her friend, Pria

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POTTS FAMILY NEWSLETTER
October 15 - 31 2009

- The girls and I (except Tiffany in Arizona) got together 2 days after Heidi’s due date and gave her hand, foot and tummy rubs, watched a video and visited! I love our “girl times” and we all hope Heidi’s baby will come soon.
- KEZIA TRIANNA HAMILTON came at last on Oct. 26th 2009 (just 2 ½ hours before grandma’s prediction!) For a full write up you just have to read Heidi’s blog: http://jhhamiltonhappenings.blogspot.com/2009/10/introducing.html
- The girls and I went to the Oquirah Temple on the 16th then I took them out to the Olive Garden.
- MIRACLE: We are finally able to get our 2nd mortgage paid!! THANK YOU HEAVENLY FATHER!!
- Mom rejoiced when some friends of their helped them make a ramp for Cindy’s wheel chair!!
- HALOWEEN PARTY!! – I invited the grandkids over and we enjoyed pizza, the what is missing game, apple bobbing and taking pictures.
- Cindy came by for Halloween and we all enjoyed visiting at Merrills home where they have apple cider.
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FAMILY
…waiting for little Trianna to join our family (Heidi’s baby)

DAN
..Busy preparing the activities for next years calendar for the Young Men
- Dan went to the energy solutions to see the Star Wars presentation.
- Dan has gone to the U of U games with Doug Isackson a few times.
- Dan and I enjoyed going to the Conference Center for our Region Conference. We ended up sitting about 20 rows from President Monson. What an amazing and beautiful experience that was. It seemed to me that Charity itself shone from his countenance, his waves, his hand shakes and his words. It was so Christlike. What a testimony it bore in my heart of his divine preparation and call.
- Dan and I enjoyed visiting Linda and Fred (in our ward) after their knee surgery. Linda was at a Rehab Center.
- Dan is enjoying his football outings with Doug Isackson very much!!!
- 30 – Dan took the scouts on a camp to Antelope Island. Afterward he came home to have Joseph surprise him by jumping on him!

PATRICIA
..Working on the Audio Tape for my book. I ended up recording it once (as is), rerecording major chapters then ending up re-recording the whole thing professional-style so I could have it produced professionally. The cost will go from $2 per pkg. to about $9 per package but Dan feels it would be blest to have something we are proud of. Please help us and guide us Father in Heaven.
- Angie, Kerri and I met at Heidi’s place to go over our presentation. Angie also brought sweet gifts of love including a bracelet for the new baby and clothes for me. Kerri and I enjoyed fried onions for lunch while Heidi and Jason went to their baby forum with Sherrie their midwife.
- Cell phone trouble. My blackberry stopped working so I bought a G1 and I’m having trouble getting the calendar and sending pictures.
- Taking dinner to Cindy when she was sick.
- Meeting with Margaret for speaking
- I finished reading YEARNING FOR THE LIVING GOD by Elder Busche. It was excellent
I received a beautiful email from someone from high school days. Her name is Char. She ran across my book at a bookfair and read it. When she realized we both went to Granger she wrote to me. Among her comments were: I can't wait to finish reading the book. I have to get it done so I can give it to Shirley on Monday ~ but I just had to say hello and tell you thank you for being so courageous in your efforts to diminish the stigma of Mental Illness. I work tirelessly on Suicide Prevention. Books like yours help me a great deal as I strive to reach out and better understand you "blessed" Angels on loan to us from God.- Char
It is emails like this one that make all the work worth it. THANK YOU HEAVENLY FATHER.
- Dentists appt. no cavitees! Yea!
- Heidi’s baby, Kezia, was born on the 26th (see entries under “Heidi”) . I got to stay to help out for 4 days. 
- I’ve been busy making arrangements for the cruise mom and dad (and their friends) are going on in December to celebrate my mom’s 80th birthday. She has always wanted to go through the panama canal.
- I was trying to decide whether to accept a speaking engagement on the 23th (Just after a week long commitment at UVU.) My head was saying it was too much. When I asked Heidi’s opinion she said “I have a wise mother who often asks me whether I have prayed about it.” What a wonderful reminder. I stood at their kitchen sink and talked to the Lord about all the plus reasons then when I went to discuss the minus reasons they seemed to disappear. What a beautiful answer to prayer. THANK YOU HEIDI. THANK YOU FATHER.
- One morning while I was helping at Heidi and Jason’s house I had my personal study. I was sitting on the floor then I paused to look around the room. It was a basement room and the window well was just outside the window. It was decorated with a cabin atmosphere and a log bed. I leaned against the bed and just basked in the warmth of the spirit. “warm fuzzies” filled my heart and silence reigned supreme. Perhaps this gift of love and warmth came to be because I had so recently observed the birth of the baby and perhaps because my Father just wanted to give me a gift. Either way it was like being given a precious stone of great worth…just because. THANK YOU FATHER.
- I finished up at Heidis and gave my hugs and kisses then stopped at the temple on the way home. I met a young woman that I hope to her back from on a few fronts (Trisha’s salon and my book)
- My friend, Colynne Call and I enjoyed going to Jamba juice for her birthday and stopping to get some things for Trisha.
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CINDY, KALLI, TIARRA, MICHAEL, JOSHUA AND CINNAMON
..Almost finished with her Thursday night classes. Beginning November her classes move to Tues. till graduation
- for almost 2 weeks Cindy was sick with tooth pain following a root canal. In the end, after much internet research, she chose to have the tooth extracted. After that she did much better.
- I got to help Cindy with the kids and cleaning on the 20th when she had her tooth pulled
- Thanks for helping so much with the birth and afterwards. You made a very good assistant midwife Cindy.
- Thanks for heading up the meals for after the baby was born
- Thanks for being so patient as we all waited for the kids to get well so they could see the baby.
http://kallisbblog.blogspot.com/

HEIDI, JASON, McKINLEY, IRELAND, TUNDRA & SYDNEY
: waiting…waiting…waiting for her baby…waiting…waiting…waiting for Jason’s job.
- Heidi made yummy chicken tortillas for dinner. When I was there helping when they went to their forum. – I enjoyed playing the guitar for the girls.
- Heidi enjoyed wearing her new shirt from Angie a few days before she delivered.
- Heidi once again hosted the 3 day scrapbook gathering at her house following general conference. This fall it included a trip to the temple and a baby bow shower. Cute bows!! I got to make hot chocolate and aple dip
- 22nd- I took Heidi to brunch on her due date to help pass the time away. She helped burn my audiotapes too.
- On the 24th Cindy, Trisha and I invited Heidi to come over so we could give her a hand rub and watch a movie to wile away the time.
- On Monday the 26th I was busy going about my normal housework stuff when Trisha called because she wasn’t feeling very good. I was going to take her to the doctors when I called Dan. He said “Don’t do it.” Heidi is dialated to a 6. I’m headed over to pick up the kids.
- Cindy got to Heidi’s first. Trisha and I got stuck in slow traffic but we all eventually got there… the rest of the story is best told in Heidis words:

Kezia Trianna Hamilton!
For those wondering about the name...
Kezia is a bible name - one of the 3 daughters Job was blessed with after he went through his trials. The bible says "And in all the land were no women found so fair as the daughters of Job." (Job 42:15). (as a sidenote, we were undecided between Eden and Kezia. We took a family vote - Jason's side was more for Kezia. Heidi's was more for Eden. Then we flipped a penny, and Kezia it is!) We'll call her Kezi for short.
Trianna - a combination of our mother's names - PaTRIcia and DeeANN. McKinley & Ireland are also both named after grandmothers. It is also a street (and town) in the Canary Islands, where Jason served his mission.

Here are the short stats:

-Born October 26th at 9:34pm
-8 lbs 4 oz
-20.5 inches long (just like her sisters!)
-Born at home

Now, for those of you wanting the nitty-gritty details - and for her journal, here is the rest of the story (as I remember it):
Her due date was Thursday, Oct 22, and even though I know I always go late, I was pretty miserable, so my midwife, Sherri, came on Oct 21 & did the primrose oil and stripped my membranes. I went for a good hour walk & the contractions were coming pretty good. I got my hopes up, but was disappointed when the contractions fizzled that night & were gone the next day. My mom was cute & took me out to breakfast at Kneaders the next day & my sweet neighbor, Kristina, took me some fresh-baked bread as a sympathy offering. It was hard to wait, but wait we did.
Monday, October 26th, Sherri got to our home at around 1pm. She again did the primrose oil & stripped my membranes. We were both surprised & glad that I was dialated to a 4 by that time (I was a 2 the Wednesday before) Then she had me do some lunges & squats & off we went in her tiny neon green Volkswagen Bug to Walmart. The contractions were coming, but I had had so many in the past, I was kind of in a "I'll believe it when I see it" mode. However, my shopping experience at Walmart was not an especially pleasant one. I was really having to start to stop and focus and they were getting painful. After checking out, we had planned to go to Dave's Health & Nutrition, but I really wasn't sure that was a good idea because they were really coming stronger. So we headed back to the house & she checked me. This was about 4:30pm. I was a 6! Hooray! That really meant that I was progressing & we could have a baby that night!
Sherri starting calling her attendants and I started calling my sisters & mom (for the record, my sister Cindy was the only one that answered even though I called the others multiple times). I also called my dad & he came to get the girls and take them to his house (thanks dad!). Sherri had Jason running around getting things ready and I was just trying to focus. At about 5pm, I got in my jetted tub and that seemed to really help ease the pain.

workin' it in the tub
Cindy got here at around 5:15 or so. Mom & Trisha got here around 6pm - and the other attendants did as well - Molly and Denise. She checked me again around that time & I was about a 7. By that time, I decided to get out & try the ball & see if that would get things moving faster. I went in the baby's room and everyone was really great to help push on my legs and my back & help get me through the contractions. Sherri had me do the stairs and lunges and I was walking around and they were getting pretty painful. I was getting kind of cold, so I got back in the tub, but when they checked the baby's heartbeat, it seemed really really fast. Sherri came & checked and was worried as well. Jason gave me a blessing and we waited & they tried a different Doppler fetal monitor. It seemed to have slowed down. We were so thankful because we would have ended up going to the hospital if her heart rate would have stayed elevated. Sherri checked again around 8 and I was "almost an 8."

We decided that we should probably break my water soon to get the baby to come since that was what it took to get Ireland here. They set up the birth stool in the baby's room and I got situated with everyone around to support me - physically and emotionally. Not too long after getting situated on the birthing stool, the contractions changed. I could tell they were the REAL DEAL. Funny how you forget all the pain from a previous birth, but it all just comes back it all reality and I was going oh YEAH - this HURTS! I was glad the girls weren't there. I was "vocalizing" quite a bit by the end :)
After I was about a 9, Sherri "teased" the bag and I got some good pushes in, our sweet baby girl was there about 10 minutes later - 9:34pm. I was soooooo thankful she was here! I could not contain my tears! She had finally made her way into the world & I was able to hold my sweet girl in my arms. They put her on my chest and I just chrerished the moment of this fresh-from-heaven treasure.

I wish I could say that was the end of the story. I won't go into too much detail here, but the postpartum story involved an irregular placenta, hemorrhaging (with blood clots), a blessing, a "manual D&C", throwing up, an IV bag, and barely a wink of sleep the night after she was born. Needless to say, I am still pretty weak and tired while my body builds back all the blood I lost. I am SO blessed, though. There were at least 3 instances throughout this time that I was close to going to the hospital, but I truly feel that we were watched over and protected. I cannot say enough how thankful I am to my AMAZING husband. His priesthood blessings were critical and his support was unwavering. He was truly inspired the entire time. I am so thankful for Sherri. Watching her work is amazing. She has so much knowledge and experience which she incorporates, but I'm most comforted by her ability to work by the spirit and by inspiration. I am also SO, SO thankful for my sisters and mom for being there for me - supporting me every step of the way and being such a blessing to me. I am thankful to the attendants - Molly & Denise. So awesome. I felt SO loved and taken care of the entire time. I could NOT have asked for a better support team in bringing this sweet, amazing, beautiful girl into this world and into our home.

Meeting their new sister. They are SO, SO, SO excited to have her here!


Mommy & her precious Kezi

- The only other things I would add would be:
- Jason and I got to help deliver Kezia into this world with the help of the midwife (it was so exciting!)
-27th Darrin and Trisha took the girls to meet their baby sister.
- I enjoyed watching their family traditions such as scriptures in the morning and night.
- I marvel at Jason’s faith and prayers as he waits for his job to materialize
- I love all their pictures of Jesus
- I took the girls to the ward trunk or treat on the 28th
- Jason’s mom has been ill. We are praying for her.
- Kezia’s doctor appt. went well on the 28th.
_ Sherrie, the midwife stopped by twice to check on how things were going. We ended up having some very spiritual moments. The morning after Kezia was born I opened up my scriptures to “any page” and landed on the one in Exodus 1:19 “God dealt well with the midwives…” Sherrie shared some very special stories after that. THANKS FATHER
- www.Hamiltonhappenings.blogspot.com

TIFFANY, ADAM, SIMBA, FIJI
: Tiff got sick during her New York vacation.
see www.checkettslife.blogspot.com


TRISHA AND DARRIN
: Trisha and Darrin are busy getting their Bumblebee website ready for the Christmas season. It will feature things a woman wants.
- The night Cindy was sick Trisha and Darrin still came to dinner. We enjoyed playing Racko afterwards. The sad part was that I lost every time!!!
- Thanks for the great job on my hair on the 19th. Afterwards we went shopping at the new supermarket WINCO. Boy was that an experience!!!
- Trisha and Darrin are….
- Thanks for helping take care of the girls after Heidi had her baby.
- Trisha and Darrin finally found a new renter. It is a young married couple and a friend.
see www.strikingimagesalon
: see www.simonsmiles@blogspot.com

JOSEPH
:Joseph has an ipod now so we have enjoyed texting him.
- Imagine my surprise when Joseph came walking in the Family Room on the 30th!! He picked me up off the ground and gave me a big bear hug!
- We visited then he waited till Trisha stopped by for her sack so he could “jump” her as well.
- He hung out with David and Gavin the first few days
- On Sunday he drove 6 hours with Dan’s car to and from Rock Springs get his girlfriend Jenessa.

see www.facebook.com


JOSIE, DAVID, ALEX, JULIA, AARON, ANDREW
: It was great to have the family over for a Halloween party. The sad part of that one of their dogs has become a biter and they took camcord pictures before having to put him down. They now have a new puppy to go with Aowen.

Notes from the Regional Conference:
Pres. Costa-
• He read the Book of Mormon in 14 hours
• The Living Prophet has the most vital message for our day.
• The Living Prophet will never lead us astray
Wayne Chamberlain
• Pres. Of Jordan River Temple
• Our garments are hedges
• Going to the temple arms us with thy power. Angels have power
• Every temple completed lessons the power of Satan.
• If we attend the temple we will love our family members more than we ever have before
• Weekly temple attendance
Sheldon Child
• The temple is a place of peace. 130 in world.
Robert Hales
• When we go to the temple each Thursday Pres. Monson asks us about our responsibilities then listens to each of us talk about our stewardships.
• When it is his turn he talks about his family, home and neighbors.
• The center of all we believe is our Savior and his atonement (the temple and the sacrament.)
• Father sent an angel to strengthen Jesus. He will send help to us as well.
• Always remember Him and keep his Commandments
Pres. Thomas Monson
• I have visited all the stakes in Salt Lake in my 46 years.
• Where there are aged, sick or desolate help them!
• Story of boys who earned money to give a box of food to the widows
• If we don’t try we don’t do – If we don’t do then where are we? Be ye doers of the word
• 1. Show possibilities
• 2. Love thy neighbor as thyself
• 3. People can change
• Story of a man who worked in the prison and facilitated AA groups. He walked and talked with the inmates. Someone commented to him “You can’t change a leopards spots.” To this the brother replied “You should know, I don’t work with leopards. I work with men.”
• Let your Home teaching and visit teaching be more than a monthly visit. Be a friend.
• Story of a man who helped others get jobs. He had the ability to see Christ in each person.
Relief Society:
If we are not physically and spiritually reliant how can we have anything to give others? – Sue Merchant

There is a difference between talking with Heavenly Father and talking to Him – Teri Ann Allen

Try asking a question, opening your scriptures, finding the answer then WRITING IT DOWN! – Teri Ann Allen

Sunday, September 27, 2009

2009 Sept. 15 -31

Long time...no hear right?

Well, I thought I'd start putting my newsletters here.

The pictures don't come through :( unless I spend extra time putting them in one at a time so if you want the one with pictures write me at patripotts@mstarmetro.net

here goes...
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POTTS FAMILY NEWSLETTER
June 2009


Shopping with Trisha for her birthday

Out to dinner with Ron and Shawna before the big race

Dan and Ron hold the sign I made. Dan took 5th place in his age group.

Fun with my friends Darla, Peggy and Peg

Working on the Youtube recording where I explained a bit about MY JOURNEY FROM DARKNESS TO LIGHT and FIRST-AID FOR FEELING

FAMILY
..Tews came over on the 5th to watch the BYU vs. Oklahoma game with Dan. They brought pizza and we all enjoyed an evening together ESPECIALLY when BYU won by 1 point in the last 3 minutes!! Dan was the biggest fan of them all. I got out the cow bell when they made touchdowns!
- Heidi and Ireland joined Cindy’s family for our Sunday dinner on the 6th since Jason was gone with McKinley to Richfield. It was fun to have them We had fun making signs for Trisha’s birthday.
-We were very proud of Mom. She was honored as one of 8 volunteers in the State of Utah. She and Dad attended a luncheon and the Governor himself gave her an award.
DAN
..Sue Merchant came over on Sat. the 5th to help us work on Dan’s genealogy. Father, please help us keep going on it and please help us find names for January when Kalli turns 12.
- Dan was very busy with Scouts. He did flags four times, he was in charge of the 3-legged race for the Ward picnic, we helped clean the church, he headed up the Friends of Scouting drive, he attended a stake meeting and taught a lesson. All in one week. He amazes me with his dedication and willingness to serve and give, teach and mentor.
- Dan and I had a date at the cafeteria of Primary Children’s hospital because I wanted to attend a class at UNIE. He ws so good to be willing to go.

- A Very Busy Saturday: Saturday the 12th was a very busy day. It started with the neighborhood clean up (this is a great service our last Bishop instituted), Dan did friends of scouting, I went to Dwayne Ward’s viewing (the son of my parent’s friends), next Dan and I brushed up on old acquaintences then attended our 57th ward reunion. After that the Tews came to watch BYU football wth Dan then Dan went to the ward picnic while I went to the Trek dinner and reunion (I felt lonely). Then at 8:30 Doug came to watch U of U football with Dan! It was one busy day!
- 15- Dan and I went to the primary election then to grandparent’s day at the Kalli, Michael and Tiarra’s elementary school we had breakfast with them too.

PATRICIA
..I was reminded of three very helpful ideas when I find myself judging someone: 1. the triangle prayer, 2. Ask God to cast Satan far from me and 3. Pray that he/she will have the experiences he/she needs right now.
- Yipee! I transferred a song today!
It felt so good to get my household things done early this week!
- I started physical therapy for my jaw problems. Very helpful!
- - I had a free session with Annette Pieper to assess ideas that might help in meeting my business goals. The best thing that came from it was that I really am committed to maintaining a balance in my personal life!
- I bought a camcorder to record family and speaking events. Fun!
- I made yummy whole wheat and honey banana bread!
- Peg invited Darla and I to her house. Peggy taught us more about how to do EFT. Yummy meal, very fun and informative.
- I created 2 new youtubes. They were about my two books. Within 12 hours there had been 11 views. I hope they are blessing others.
- On the 4th I did a presentation called NEW LEASE ON LIFE for paramount care center. I enjoyed it and especially enjoyed Launi (a friend from high school) coming to join me. Afterward we visited Trisha (it was just down the street.) Then came to my house to share lunch and a bit more of our lives experiences. Launi gave me some good sales advice as well. Thanks so much Father.
- I’ve enjoyed touching bases with my cousin Valerie.
- My dear friend, Karen Johnson, stopped me on the way home from church just to tell me that she loves me and thinks I am thoughtful and special. It meant so very much to me. It is amazing how just a few words of praise go a long, long ways. Thanks Karen.
- I am using EFT and NLP. They are actually helping with my pain! Thank you Heavenly Father.
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- -A SPIRITUAL DRILL!
- On the 8th I was once again reminded of the principle of drilling! First, I woke up in the morning and felt impressed that I should visit a neighbor who was in the hospital. When I arrived I learned she was no longer there. Later that day I felt impressed to attend a class clear up by the U. When I got there to meet Dan for dinner before the class I realized that I was there on the WRONG DAY!! I began to second guess my ability to hear the spirit. Why would I feel impressed to do something then have it not turn out? It was then I remembered a lesson long ago when I realized that sometimes we just need to practice listening to the spirit and following it so we will be ready when the actual need arises. Just the drill is enough.
- I had a dream about St. George so we are planning to go Oct. 1-4th!! Thanks Fatehr.
- Meeting with Margaret about doing some speaking for Jr. Highs and High schools. It was fun , informative and very hopeful.
- Teaching guitar. Can you believe it? I have 17 students now!!!
- Watching the kids for Cindy.
- Kerri, Angie and I got together on the 11th to prepare for our presentation at the State mental hospital. After we had lunch here then did a dry run on the presentation we enjoyed hot tubing! It was fun. Thanks Father.
- U of U – BOOKS
- FOR SALE
- On the 15th I went to the U of U to see the book fair display where my books are sold as part of a traveling display. It was hard to find but nice when I got there. After that Dan and I went to lunch at his work then went for a walk. I also got tickets for him for 2 upcoming events. The star wars event and transiberian orchestra. After that I watched the kids for Cindy and finished reading OUT OF THE DUST. A book for our ward reading club.
- Lots of work and fear preparing for the Ladies Literary Club presentation.
CINDY, KALLI, TIARRA, MICHAEL, JOSHUA, TOBY AND CINNAMON
..Dan and Mike gave the kids blessings to help them with school this year.
- Joshua got his swine flu shot
- I took a video of Cindy teaching Chiabop (a form of math) and put it on youtube for her.
- Mike was in Colorado Springs for 9 days so we got to watch the kids for a few weeks.
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HEIDI, JASON, McKINLEY, IRELAND, TUNDRA & SYDNEY
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TIFFANY, ADAM, SIMBA, FIJI
Tiff, Thanks for your call on the 3rd. You really helped me clarify one my goals about making my book into a book on CD.
- Tiff called. She got her test results. They showed how she is doing with vitamins etc. etc. I’m so glad she calls and keeps me up to speed. She
- Doing suppliments now to increase her health.
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TRISHA AND DARRIN
: Still struggling with finding a renter. They found a woman that keeps going back and forth with her decision.
For Trisha’s birthday Dan and I had her over for breakfast. She chose hash browns and german pancakes. Later on, after Darrin had taken her to donut falls, we took them to a movie! 21 years old!!
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JOSEPH
: We haven’t heard anything from Joseph since the 4th. He said they may be deploying him in December but nothing is for sure. We just pray for him each day.
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JOSIE, DAVID, ALEX, JULIA, AARON, ANDREW
: It was fun to have Josie pop in on Saturdays. She comes to hang out while Julia took cello lessons. She said Andrew got his tonsils out a few days ago. David is loving his job selling VW vehicles. Aaron is saving up for a computer and Alex helps train the dogs.
I can do something for someone else that noone else can do. – Joan Welch
Joan asked for the comfort of her Mother in Heaven and she received it.

Launi, Peg, Peggy

Saturday, February 14, 2009

The ABC's of my Wonderful Husband Dan (Happy Valentines 2009)


Abundant. Because of you I’ve been able to stay at home and experience abundance!
Baptisms. I’m looking forward to miracle baptisms on our mission to come.
Christlike. You are so service-oriented as exemplified in your gift to Richard
Devoted to our family
Europe memories with you
Forgiving. You’ve gotten to practice it with me quite a bit
Good. You are a good person and you are good to me
Hawaii memories
Integrity. You live it and teach it.
Jokes. You share the best newspaper jokes with me
Keen at sports watching and playing them
Loving me despite my hang-ups, weaknesses etc.
Man of my dreams (My knight in shining armor)
Nice. You are a nice person and that goes a long ways
Optomistic. You often help me out of the dumpts and into hope
Powerful Leader. Dependable, organized, amazing
Quite and example of setting Goals (like running and not quiting, like giving Joseph all you’ve got)
Rearing Children with Testimonies
Supportive – book and all
Tolerating our frequent schedule changes
Understanding me when I am upset
Walking with me
Xtreme make-overs helping straighten the house when company are coming over
Zzzz – great sleeping partner 

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Jan Week 3-



Hello everyone. I keep chugging along. Because of neck and head pain I haven't done too well on exercising but I'm not giving up girls! I have finally gotten into the habit of marking my chart just before brushing my teeth at night. Yea!!

Thanks for all your prayers. I need them, I feel them.
I love you,
mom

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

More Learning

Hi Guys,

I made all kinds of nice comments and a welcome to Josie only to discover that my loving words didn't make it to the blog because I wasn't "signed in"

sigh...sad...sorry!
I hope you can feel my kudos all the same because the words were so profound I couldn't reproduce them!!

As for me-- Guess what? I was invited to be part of the entertainment for Wheeler Farm this summer and I was asked to speak at a Relief Society!! I can see God's hand in this so much. My patriartical blessing speaks of having opportunities as I am "prepared to receive them and enjoy them."

Yeah!!

By the way, I'd like to invite Darla but I don't know how. Heidi, could you help me?

Love ya all,
unwritten Patricia

Saturday, January 3, 2009

2009 Hopeful Possibilities


I sat pondering from a wooden chair as I looked out the window of our friends home in St. George, Utah. Their red brick, 3 story home sits at the top of a steep hill at the end of a cultisack. I thought of my morning walk and of the last 100 steps that tested my endurance and lungs before I made it to their door. “Hmmm,” I thought, as I contemplated my goals for another year. Most of my peaceful, “top of the hill” experiences were not planned this year. They were difficult and steep experiences (like my recent herniated neck discs) yet, when the pain finally subsides and answers seem close I find that somehow I have grown.

Still, although these experiences were not on my list of goals (wherever they are), often my planning has prepared me for the unpreparable, and so I will once again plan, pray and prepare. This year I look forward to joining hands with other 2009 hopefuls. I am entitling my piece “Hopeful Possibilities” because after 53 years of “New Year Resolutions” I thought a change was in order. J

As I write this, I feel like a kid in a candy store. I want so many improvements, so many good memories.

So here goes. I will label them as A,B or C priorities (Kind of like my GREAT EIGHT.) In this case not because B priorities aren’t important but because I had to somehow par the list:

Physical:
A. Drinking a half cup water before eating sweets or seconds
A. Doing what I need to in order to get my neck working better

Spiritually:
B. I often talk to my Father in prayer but I rarely kneel to do it. I want to kneel at least once daily. In fact, I think I’ll try to kneel when I go to visit the bathroom throne several times a day.
A. Set a timer when I do computer things so I can generally keep it to 20 minutes per session.
B. Continue journaling many of my prayers
B+. Read the D&C
B. Enjoy the temple with Dan and the girls as well as by myself. Try to attend twice a month.

Mentally:
B. Learn how to use my mp3 player and start using it

Family:
B. Be more consistant with dates. Dan dates, kids and grandkids dates. Even if we just have a nice meal at home.
A. When importing pictures, label the good ones so I can find them
A. Make one extra payment per month on the principle owed on our house. Even a small check can be helpful.
A. Enjoy a wonderful, memorable retreat with our family and Lotta’s family in August!!!



Home:
B. Organizing ½ of our home (that means dejunking and organizing drawers, cupboards etc. in at least 5 rooms
B. Redoing our bedroom (sell current oak furniture, get new flooring and redecorate with simple, streamlined furniture.) I want it to have a “retreat” or “bed and breakfast” look (THANKS FOR YOUR HELP TIFF, YOU HELPED US COME UP WITH A PLAN.)
A. I want to be more accountable for our budget.

Marketing, Writing, Speaking, Singing:
A. I’m going to stick out my neck on this one: Keep my thoughts more positive through memorizing positive songs then sharing them through MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKING and INSPIRATIONAL MUSICAL PRESENTATIONS four times per year. The titles I’m thinking of are: “Spring Forward”, “A Summer’s Day”, “Fall Fun” and “Holiday Happenings”. I would like any feedback you may have.
A. Share/sell 300 My Journey from Darkness to Light by April. At that point I want to determine a new goal by the end of 2009
B. Continue spending 8-10 hours per week learning to market my books through the web. Continue my newsletter and continue learning from my partner and webmaster, Heidi.
B. Attending 3-4 writer’s retreats